Running a BDSM live cam may seem easy at first. Get a bit of info about what BDSM involves, set some boundaries, decide on what you want to do, get the equipment, and you’re ready to stream. The thing is there’s a major difference between streaming and being successful at it.
Just like anyone else involved with a business opportunity, cam models also require professional advice. You won’t always find the right advice online, but there are a few general things that will most likely make the difference.
Dominance and submission work
Submission over a cam is relatively simple to achieve. You need to use both your appearance and words. You can be the dominant side over a wide audience, or you could be the slave. Give people the option to tip for certain things and gain control.
If you look clumsy or you’re a bit nervous, you’ll be submissive. If you’re bold, you’ll look like the dominant party. Focus on humiliation and make sure you stay in power.
On the other hand, to be submissive, make sure you adopt a more fearful attitude, so you’ll have to look afraid.
Bondage is hot
Bondage over a live stream is a bit challenging, but doable. You need to get bonded, but you also need to be able to untie yourself. Make sure to practice first, so you don’t get stuck. Scissors nearby could be a good backup idea, too.
As a general rule of thumb, unless you run a show with a different model, it’s wiser to tie arms at the front, as mobility will be better. Nylon, silk or cotton ropes work well in BDSM live cam shows.
While giving users control is definitely more exciting, the truth is you’ll find it easier if you perform such shows with another model.
Sadism and masochism
Like bondage, sadism, and masochism is a brilliant idea if you do it by the book. Again, you can be one or the other. If you’re a sadist, ask your audience to slap themselves, spank their bums and so on. As a masochism, you’ll need to take all these from your audience.
For maximum effect, get one of those vibrators that give users control over the intensity of vibrations when they tip. A tip menu will also work.
You’ll obviously need to choose yourself what feels more suitable for your shows. Here are a few extra tips and tricks that may help out:
•While looking afraid helps at times, you’ll still have to smile every now and then and show that you enjoy it, even if you’re under someone else’s control.
•Your production needs to be in perfect lighting. Make sure the image is not blurred. Your face must be there too and the angle should be perfect. Practice first.
•Try new things and surprise your audience on a regular basis.
•Strive to bring in something your competition doesn’t do.
In the end, BDSM live cam shows can be extremely fruitful if done correctly, but practice and training are highly recommended prior to going live.
